PUT MY MF DICK AWAY (& MORE)
An excerpt from a discussion in the Relationship Renaissance Community Forum
PUT MY MF DICK AWAY:
I’ve felt like i was doing okay with this one but it seems that i need a constant reminder.
Getting things right in the moment vs. revisiting an issue: This was a really interesting piece of advice from @Mistress Alisa, a lot of times I put so much emphasis on getting things right in the moment—I feel a bit ashamed for not being perfect, as if I’m not good enough. But there’s nothing wrong with getting it wrong and making it right. This was a big takeaway for me.
Speak more actively, less passively:
This is something I noticed @Mistress Alisa hammers me on in every session. I never really noticed how much I speak indirectly.
Help Her heal from how I mistreated Her:
This is what @Mistress Alisa pointed out during the session. By taking responsibility for my mistakes and mistreatment of Her, I’ve begun cleaning the space and setting the groundwork for healing. from here, I think maintaining a nurturing space as well as the connection will be the focus, which brings me to my next takeaway…
Stay consistent: consistency is the action behind the words i wrote and expressed to Her. by remaining consistent, I can demonstrate reliability and commitment to Her and the relationship. this includes active listening, open communication, following through on promises, continuing to embrace “yes, Mistress,” showing affection, and being patient. These are ways I can actively repair the foundation of trust and contribute to Her healing process.
PUT MY MF DICK AWAY:
I’ll say it again because I need to. ugh. ;__;
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Article submission by: kittyboy, goodboy-in-training
