The chainbreaker community
The Relationship Renaissance
A supportive brotherhood for men who are committed to breaking free from sex, porn, and masturbation addictions and reclaiming control of their lives.
Through accountability, guidance, and encouragement, we provide a safe space for men to heal, grow, and thrive on the path to recovery from sexual addictions.
Lay The Foundation
Laying a strong foundation for sexual addiction recovery is crucial for long-term healing. Without a solid starting point, efforts to overcome addiction will most certainly crumble under pressure, leading to relapse and feelings of defeat. A key part of this foundation is self-awareness – acknowledging the addiction and understanding its triggers, patterns, and impact on your life.
Participants must also be willing to be open and vulnerable. This level of honesty creates a roadmap for growth and change.
Ultimately, a well-built foundation ensures that recovery isn’t just about stopping destructive behaviors, but about creating a healthier, more fulfilling life moving forward.
Do The Work
Recovery from sexual addiction requires personal effort and commitment. While support from others is essential, true healing only happens when you take ownership of your journey. Sitting back and expecting someone else to heal you is a passive approach that leads to frustration and stagnation. Change requires active participation: identifying your triggers, developing effective coping mechanisms, and making healthy, conscious decisions.
Doing the work means confronting the uncomfortable truths about yourself and your behavior. It means consistently showing up for yourself. This process can be painful, but it’s also empowering. When you put in the right types of effort, consistently, you get lasting results.
Learn How To Maintain
Learning how to maintain recovery is just as important as breaking free from addiction. Once you’ve achieved initial success in overcoming sexual addiction, maintaining that progress requires ongoing effort and vigilance. The key to long-term recovery is consistency – building healthy habits and routines that replace destructive behaviors.
Maintenance also involves recognizing that setbacks will happen. Instead of allowing a slip to spiral into full relapse, it’s crucial to respond with self-compassion and get back on track. Staying proactive in your recovery journey helps prevent complacency, which can be a dangerous place for those in recovery. Just as recovery took hard work, maintaining it demands continued focus and discipline.
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Expert Guidance to help lead you and your partner on your Female-Led Relationship (FLR) journey. Receive support.
A Supportive Community of like-minded individuals who are committed to learning and growing with you.
A Safe Environment for individuals to explore in. Develop a deeper understanding for what you are doing, and why.
Member’s Only Content. Receive access to exclusive content that Mistress Alisa creates only for the members in her community.
Chainbreaker
(The Book)
(Coming in 2025!)
12-Week FLR Bootcamp For Women
I’m thrilled to announce the upcoming release of my debut book, Chainbreaker: Breaking Free From Sex, Porn, & Masturbation Addictions. It is a powerful guide for men who would like to learn how to break free from the grip of sexual addictions. This book dives deep into understanding the root causes of addictions of a sexual nature and offers practical tools and strategies for recovery. Whether you’ve struggled for years or are just beginning to recognize the problem, Chainbreaker will help you regain control and begin your journey to freedom.
More than just a guide to quitting addictive behaviors, Chainbreaker helps men build lives of self-respect, discipline, and purpose. If you’re ready to take charge of your life and break the chains of addiction, this book will be your key to lasting change.
You Might Be A Good Candidate for sexual addiction recovery If…
You are someone who recognizes that your behavior is negatively impacting their life, and you are willing to take accountability for your own actions. You are also a good candidate for sexual addiction recovery if you are open to self-reflection, ready to seek support, and if you are committed to making consistent efforts toward healing and personal growth.
You may not be a good candidate for sexual addiction recovery If…
You are someone who refuses to acknowledge the harm that your behavior causes and you avoid taking responsibility for your actions; if you are resistant to change, unwilling to seek help, and if you lack the commitment needed for personal growth and healing. If this sounds like you, consider seeking professional help for your emotional issues before attempting to focus on sexual addiction recovery.
Articles
In-depth insights on sex, porn, and masturbation addictions – as well as relationship advice.
Listen To Mistress Alisa On-the-Go!
Tune in to the “Chainbreaker” podcast, where we explore how breaking free from sex, porn, and masturbation addictions can lead to true freedom, self-respect, and deeper, more meaningful connections. Subscribe on your favorite podcast platform and take the first step toward reclaiming control over your life and relationships.
Break the Chains. Reclaim Your Life.
General Dating Coaching Services
Female-Led Relationships are not for everyone. BDSM and kink are not for everyone. A number of my clients will have started out with kink, but will decide to transition to more vanilla dating for different reasons. Whether you are a male or female who is seeking advice or support as you navigate the world of romance, I am available to assist you on your journey. Please note that this service emphasizes clients’ general dating and relationship needs.
Upcoming Events
COMING IN 2025!
Introducing the Chainbreaker Online Course, an in-depth, self-paced program designed specifically to help men committed to overcoming their sex, porn, and masturbation addictions. This course offers powerful tools and strategies for breaking free from addiction and transforming your life through actionable insights and proven recovery methods.
Throughout this course, you will:
* Learn how to recognize and break unhealthy patterns of addiction.
* Understand the root causes of compulsive behaviors and how to overcome them.
* Develop new, healthier habits that support long-term recovery.
* Gain practical tips for staying motivated, managing triggers, and reclaiming your self-worth.
By the end of the course, you will have gained a deeper understanding of yourself, your addiction, and the steps needed to achieve sustainable recovery. Whether you’re just beginning your journey or have been struggling with addiction for years, this course provides the guidance you need to break the chains and reclaim control of your life.
Study at your own pace and have access to the course for as long as it is being offered. (This course will be open to the public.)
Join our engaging live Q&A sessions, designed specifically for men who are committed to working through their sex, porn, and masturbation addictions. Individuals who are committed to supporting sexual addicts are also welcome to attend. These interactive sessions provide a unique opportunity to ask questions and gain real-time insights focused on addiction recovery. Whether you’re new to the recovery process or looking to deepen your understanding, these live Q&A sessions cover a wide range of topics, from overcoming triggers and rebuilding self-worth to fostering resilience and navigating personal challenges.
Connect with a supportive community, get personalized advice, and empower yourself with the knowledge to lead a life of recovery and fulfillment. (These events are open to members only—both Premium and Free.)
I am excited to offer a free 60-minute giveaway each month to a deserving man who has demonstrated exemplary work in his sex, porn, and masturbation addiction recovery. These personalized sessions provide an opportunity to dive deep into his specific challenges and help him further strengthen his recovery journey.
Whether you’re seeking support in overcoming triggers, building resilience, or navigating the complexities of your addiction recovery, these sessions are designed to address your unique needs and provide personalized guidance. Stay committed to your recovery, be active in our community, and you automatically become eligible to win a free session with me.
(This event is open to Chainbreaker Premium members only!)
Testimonials
Second call and the connection and being present with this intelligent woman is beautiful. Brings learning into focus, reinforces positively, and such a clear understanding that being open and honest just come naturally with her. Emotional and beautiful.
She’s truly unbelievable at helping you dig deep into your problematic addiction. She’s the real deal. This is not a fantasy role play she is committed to helping you. I was skeptical before I called but I was so wrong. She can help you!!
This was a real phone call, she truly helped me to see what I was doing to myself. She lead the conversation and told me some hard truths. If you want real help, this is the call!
If you’re serious about taking control back and really want to stop letting your dick drive your addiction, then you need to call Mistress Alisa. She understands the male psyche and if you listen, she will create a emotional connection as therapy progresses.
Such an amazing ability to dig deep and really help expose the root of it all. And she stays with you every step of the way, so you never feel alone in battling your thoughts. A true gift here.
You will talk to an interesting and experienced woman who really will be trying to help you with your addiction whatever it may be. All in all a good start and I am looking forward to continue with a session.
This was the best phone call I’ve had! Mistress Alisa was keen and caring. I’m looking forward to the next call. Thank you!
I just reconnected with Mistress Alisa. I’m so glad I did. She has put me on a path to break my addiction. I feel extremely connected to her and can’t way to see where this journey takes me.
All I can say is trust this woman. She knows what she is talking about. Just go with it. You won’t be sorry.
