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The Relationship Renaissance

A supportive brotherhood for men who are committed to breaking free from sex, porn, and masturbation addictions and reclaiming control of their lives.

Through accountability, guidance, and encouragement, we provide a safe space for men to heal, grow, and thrive on the path to recovery from sexual addictions.

Lay The Foundation

Laying a strong foundation for sexual addiction recovery is crucial for long-term healing. Without a solid starting point, efforts to overcome addiction will most certainly crumble under pressure, leading to relapse and feelings of defeat. A key part of this foundation is self-awareness – acknowledging the addiction and understanding its triggers, patterns, and impact on your life.

Participants must also be willing to be open and vulnerable. This level of honesty creates a roadmap for growth and change.

Ultimately, a well-built foundation ensures that recovery isn’t just about stopping destructive behaviors, but about creating a healthier, more fulfilling life moving forward.

Do The Work

Recovery from sexual addiction requires personal effort and commitment. While support from others is essential, true healing only happens when you take ownership of your journey. Sitting back and expecting someone else to heal you is a passive approach that leads to frustration and stagnation. Change requires active participation: identifying your triggers, developing effective coping mechanisms, and making healthy, conscious decisions.

Doing the work means confronting the uncomfortable truths about yourself and your behavior. It means consistently showing up for yourself. This process can be painful, but it’s also empowering. When you put in the right types of effort, consistently, you get lasting results.

Learn How To Maintain

Learning how to maintain recovery is just as important as breaking free from addiction. Once you’ve achieved initial success in overcoming sexual addiction, maintaining that progress requires ongoing effort and vigilance. The key to long-term recovery is consistency – building healthy habits and routines that replace destructive behaviors. 

Maintenance also involves recognizing that setbacks will happen. Instead of allowing a slip to spiral into full relapse, it’s crucial to respond with self-compassion and get back on track. Staying proactive in your recovery journey helps prevent complacency, which can be a dangerous place for those in recovery. Just as recovery took hard work, maintaining it demands continued focus and discipline.

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Chainbreaker
(The Book)

(Coming in 2025!)

12-Week FLR Bootcamp For Women

I’m thrilled to announce the upcoming release of my debut book, Chainbreaker: Breaking Free From Sex, Porn, & Masturbation Addictions. It is a powerful guide for men who would like to learn how to break free from the grip of sexual addictions. This book dives deep into understanding the root causes of addictions of a sexual nature and offers practical tools and strategies for recovery. Whether you’ve struggled for years or are just beginning to recognize the problem, Chainbreaker will help you regain control and begin your journey to freedom.

More than just a guide to quitting addictive behaviors, Chainbreaker helps men build lives of self-respect, discipline, and purpose. If you’re ready to take charge of your life and break the chains of addiction, this book will be your key to lasting change.

You Might Be A Good Candidate for sexual addiction recovery If…

You are someone who recognizes that your behavior is negatively impacting their life, and you are willing to take accountability for your own actions. You are also a good candidate for sexual addiction recovery if you are open to self-reflection, ready to seek support, and if you are committed to making consistent efforts toward healing and personal growth.

You may not be a good candidate for sexual addiction recovery If…

You are someone who refuses to acknowledge the harm that your behavior causes and you avoid taking responsibility for your actions; if you are resistant to change, unwilling to seek help, and if you lack the commitment needed for personal growth and healing. If this sounds like you, consider seeking professional help for your emotional issues before attempting to focus on sexual addiction recovery.

Listen To Mistress Alisa On-the-Go!

Tune in to the “Chainbreaker” podcast, where we explore how breaking free from sex, porn, and masturbation addictions can lead to true freedom, self-respect, and deeper, more meaningful connections. Subscribe on your favorite podcast platform and take the first step toward reclaiming control over your life and relationships.

Break the Chains. Reclaim Your Life.

General Dating Coaching Services

Female-Led Relationships are not for everyone. BDSM and kink are not for everyone. A number of my clients will have started out with kink, but will decide to transition to more vanilla dating for different reasons. Whether you are a male or female who is seeking advice or support as you navigate the world of romance, I am available to assist you on your journey. Please note that this service emphasizes clients’ general dating and relationship needs.

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Testimonials

Second call and the connection and being present with this intelligent woman is beautiful. Brings learning into focus, reinforces positively, and such a clear understanding that being open and honest just come naturally with her. Emotional and beautiful.
Adam X., Client

She’s truly unbelievable at helping you dig deep into your problematic addiction. She’s the real deal. This is not a fantasy role play she is committed to helping you. I was skeptical before I called but I was so wrong. She can help you!!

Nick X., Client

This was a real phone call, she truly helped me to see what I was doing to myself. She lead the conversation and told me some hard truths. If you want real help, this is the call!

Scott X., Client
If you’re serious about taking control back and really want to stop letting your dick drive your addiction, then you need to call Mistress Alisa. She understands the male psyche and if you listen, she will create a emotional connection as therapy progresses.
Miles X., Client

Such an amazing ability to dig deep and really help expose the root of it all. And she stays with you every step of the way, so you never feel alone in battling your thoughts. A true gift here.

Carl X., Client

You will talk to an interesting and experienced woman who really will be trying to help you with your addiction whatever it may be. All in all a good start and I am looking forward to continue with a session.

Tony X., Client
This was the best phone call I’ve had! Mistress Alisa was keen and caring. I’m looking forward to the next call. Thank you!
Terry X., Client

I just reconnected with Mistress Alisa. I’m so glad I did. She has put me on a path to break my addiction. I feel extremely connected to her and can’t way to see where this journey takes me.

Grant X., Client

All I can say is trust this woman. She knows what she is talking about. Just go with it. You won’t be sorry.

Shane X., Client