Tag: Journey

Submissive or Co-dependent?

Mistress Alisa explores the differences between submission and co-dependency. It is not uncommon in the BDSM lifestyle to run across individuals who try to sell co-dependency as submission. It is a problematic practice, at least. And, in most extreme cases, it can actually be dangerous. In this episode of Heart and Soul, she offers sound advice about the perils of co-dependency within the context of BDSM.

The Journey

Working through addiction is like embarking upon a marathon. Pacing plays a significant role in determining whether or not a race can be completed. It also plays a part in determining the state of the athlete at the end of the race. Those who run marathons will tell you that it is important to be in the moment and to not get ahead of one’s self. Neither is it beneficial to abide in the past.