Recovery

Relationships with Princess Dommes

Recovering from any addiction requires a long hard look at the truth. And it is equally as important to be able to be able to identify the feelings connected to addictive behaviors; to look at what you are doing and see how your actions impact not only yourself but those around you. Remember, with sex, porn, and masturbation addictions, we are not talking about chemical dependencies. Rather, we are talking about mental, emotional, and even possibly even physical dependencies on specific sexual acts. This article takes a closer look at the relationship between the alpha male who pretends to be submissive and the “princess dommes” in his employ. Let’s begin…

You were attracted to her – The Princess Domme – because she possessed the physical traits that turned you on. She looked great as arm candy. Her tits suited you in a particular way and so did her ass. You liked the way that her manicured painted toes peaked out of her open-toed shoes, the way that her hair smelled and the way that it bounced when she walked. Her laugh, her flirtatious touch, her compelling tone.

But what you failed to acknowledge in any meaningful way was the fact that she did not care about you past the point of your maximum credit card limit; that she had no regard for you beyond how much money you spent on her; that you were just another hand touching her, taking advantage of her, trying to get what you wanted; that she consciously made a decision to tolerate you so that she could continue to receive money and gifts from you.

Perhaps, you were honest about your own intentions, that she was nothing more than just another piece of hot ass to you; that you had paid the piper and it was your right as a wealthy alpha male to be able to expect…or to demand pleasure, especially since you have an abundance of cash, power, and influence at your disposal. After all, if you cannot use your resources as leverage against others, then what use are those resources in the end? Right?…

She is selling her soul for stuff. You are selling your soul for pleasure. She is undermining her relationship with self (and others), as well as sabotaging her future, for a Gucci purse – and you are undermining your relationship with your wife and children, and destabilizing all that you have worked to build over the past 20, 30, or even 40 years – all for the purpose of getting your dick off.

Perhaps, you have been blindly walking in and out of BDSM for some time, appearing when your desires compel you to do so, and disappearing once you have finished using the individual who provided you a service.

You approach her with as much passion as your loins can hold. Nothing matters except you getting what you want. And somewhere between 15 and 60 minutes later, you leave feeling somewhat different. After the sexual high has faded, it is not uncommon for feelings of judgment, sadness, anxiety, and shame to set in.

You used her. She used you. And you are no longer distracted by longings in your loins. Now, it is just you and your reflection in the mirror.

How much do you like what you see?

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