BrianR has been in submissive training with Mistress Alisa for just a little bit under a month. However, his progress has been impressive. So impressive, in fact, that Mistress Alisa decided to have him on the show to share intimate details about his journey, thus far.
Men have conversations with their penises all the time, but most of the time they have no idea what they are even doing. And because they are unaware of the fact that there is, in fact, an on-going dialogue going on with their penises, they would be surprised to find out that a great deal of the conversation is one-sided. The dick tells them what they need, what they need to do, how to fill the aching within, etc., and the man simply complies. With very little resistance at all, he often-times will just go along with what his cock is saying and only deal with the consequences – or the TRUTH of what he has done – afterwards.
In her very first “story time segment,” Mistress Alisa shares details of how one of her clients threw away months of hard work, all because he assigned too high of a value to a blowjob. Learning to create a safe place in which you and your partner are able to flourish together is tricky enough as it is. But when one’s sexual mindset has been conditioned by years and years of extreme kink, desensitization to the needs of one’s partner is bound to become a real issue. Here is “Steve’s” story.
SamS has been on a year-long BDSM journey with Mistress Alisa – a journey in which She is the Dominant female who directs his path and one in which he is the submissive male who learns to submit. He opens up about the ups and downs of his relationship with Her during that time. Sam speaks frankly about his feelings and the lessons that he has learned. He also shares some of the mistakes that he has made along the way.
The BDSM lifestyle can be quite compelling, and yet it can also be pretty intimidating. It can be harmful and yet it can be fulfilling. It can stunt one’s emotional and sexual self, and yet it can free those very same parts of a person.
Recovering from any addiction requires a long hard look at the truth. And it is equally as important to be able to be able to identify the feelings connected to addictive behaviors; to look at what you are doing and see how your actions impact not only yourself but those around you. Remember, with sex, porn, and masturbation addictions, we are not talking about chemical dependencies. Rather, we are talking about mental, emotional, and even possibly even physical dependencies on specific sexual acts. This article takes a closer look at the relationship between the alpha male who pretends to be submissive and the “princess dommes” in his employ. Let’s begin…