Category: Heart And Soul Podcast

The Price of a Blowjob

In her very first “story time segment,” Mistress Alisa shares details of how one of her clients threw away months of hard work, all because he assigned too high of a value to a blowjob. Learning to create a safe place in which you and your partner are able to flourish together is tricky enough as it is. But when one’s sexual mindset has been conditioned by years and years of extreme kink, desensitization to the needs of one’s partner is bound to become a real issue. Here is “Steve’s” story.

Confessions of a Submissive Man: SamS #1

SamS has been on a year-long BDSM journey with Mistress Alisa – a journey in which She is the Dominant female who directs his path and one in which he is the submissive male who learns to submit. He opens up about the ups and downs of his relationship with Her during that time. Sam speaks frankly about his feelings and the lessons that he has learned. He also shares some of the mistakes that he has made along the way.

Religion and the Sex Addict

In the face of seeing an increase in the number of religious leaders battling with sex, porn, and masturbation addictions, Alisa has decided that it is time to speak up on the issue. She touches on the trends of hiding behind religious rituals and titles, of doing the right things for the wrong reasons, and of investing more heavily in creating the appearance of holiness than in actually committing to living what one teaches. This is a wake-up call for religious leaders.

Submissive or Co-dependent?

Mistress Alisa explores the differences between submission and co-dependency. It is not uncommon in the BDSM lifestyle to run across individuals who try to sell co-dependency as submission. It is a problematic practice, at least. And, in most extreme cases, it can actually be dangerous. In this episode of Heart and Soul, she offers sound advice about the perils of co-dependency within the context of BDSM.