Collared S01E03: Power Exchange (Pt1) Episode Summary Mistress Alisa and her goodboy tom return to discuss the concept of power exchange, a wildly popular term used in the world of Domination and submission. What is "power exchange," and what is its place in D/s relationships?
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Troubles In My Second Marriage A Request For Support In one of the sex addiction support groups that I belong to, a man posted, seeking support and accountability for the situation that he found himself. He had been struggling with an addiction of a sexual nature, which had played a role in the demise of his first marriage, and which was playing a role in creating problems in his second marriage. It became a relatively popular post, especially since there were so many that could relate to the details of his story. Having helped my clients to work through similar [...]
Collared: Is Valentine's Day Necessary In Healthy Relationships? Episode Summary Mistress Alisa and Her goodboy tom settle in for another conversation about relationships. This time they take an even closer look at Valentine's Day and the positive and negative implications that the wildly popular holiday can have on relationships.
Collared S01E01: Valentine's Day Special 2019 Episode Summary In this pilot episode of "Collared," Mistress Alisa and her good boy tom explore the topic of love within the context of a Dominant/submissive (D/s) relationship. They challenge the most common misconceptions of alternative lifestyles and help listeners to understand what it is like to have a healthy, exciting, and fulfilling relationship with a Dominant or submissive partner.
Knowing Who You Are Only You Can Identify Your Personal Truth In other articles, we have looked at the importance of knowing what you are fighting for. As necessary as that information is, it is also absolutely essential that you have a strong sense of self - in other words, that you know who you are. You need to know your fears, your triggers, your weaknesses. Doing the work required to get these types of answers requires quite a bit in terms of a personal commitment. And while it can help to have someone knowledgeable and trustworthy to assist you [...]
The Life You Want To Live Find Your Truth Before you can fully commit to living your best life, you need to have an idea of what your best life looks like. You have to know what you are working towards; what you are fighting for. You have to know what all of your efforts are going toward; what all of the sacrifices are for. If you don’t have a big-picture plan in mind for living your best life, you will not be successful in making any real life changes. When we talk about "truth," we are talking about that [...]
The Importance of The Dash What is the dash? Epitaphs usually have at least three items on them: the date that a person was born, the date that a person passed from this life, and a small dash connecting those two dates. One quick look at an epitaph and what a person will often times do is calculate the math. Perhaps, it is instinct to try to figure out how long another person lived, and to make assumptions about the quality of their life based on that information. However, a most overlooked detail of the epitaph is the dash. What [...]
The Alpha Male and His Sex Addiction Profile of an Alpha Male A profile of an average alpha male who actively struggles with sex addiction might look something like this. He is likely to be: Powerful - able to alter the quality of life for other individuals Influential - able to convince people to do things that he wants them to do Entitled - has a sense of other people owing him something, usually with the mindset that he is more important than others Wealthy - has access to significant amounts of expendable income Selfish - thinks primarily about himself; [...]
The Power of Hope The Belief That Things Can Get Better One of the most common reasons that sex addicts find themselves on the losing side of their battle with sex addiction is because they no longer acknowledge that things can get better. They have lost their sense of self. Sex addicts can find themselves losing against sex addiction because they do not have hope for a better life, so they live for the moment - and the moment only. They do not think of the future consequences of the decisions that they make today. Therefore, whatever feels good right [...]