Judgment seems to be a common characteristic trait of human beings. We judge those whom we know and even those whom we do not know. And within mere moments of meeting a person, we “size them up,” making determinations about intellectual ability, character, integrity, trustworthiness, and even how interesting we find the other person. Over time, these judgments only continue to grow. A person with an abundance of secrets is often in search of a safe place where he may be himself.